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Depression, Grief, Loss, Love, Macro, Multiple Pregnancy, Photography, Post-Traumatic Stress, Pregnancy, PregnancyLoss, PTSD, Rape, Relatiionships, Sexual Topics
There is no limit to one’s grief, do not label yours or others, do not put a timeline on and do not judge yourself or others grief.
I have gone through many traumatic events in my thirty-six years on this planet, though each event was not as bad as you might think or maybe my brain just was finally able to process some of these.
The photo above is one I took from in front of our house, years back. (Side not I really want to get a Macro Photography lens.)
I had an ex-boyfriend attack me many, many years ago. I try to process that but it takes a lot of strength. And it wears me down. I am still having nightmares from something that happened to me at somewhere I thought was safe with someone I thought cared about me, and being sexually attacked in a relationship can be the worst thing.
How one figures out the worse thing they have been though, well its complicated, all I know sometimes I think losing my multiple pregnancy was less hard than the rape.
How does one put a stopwatch on grief and mourning?